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Finding Feathers

Paintings to Honor Babies & Children

We are a 501(c)(3) non profit, providing bereaved families with hand-painted portraits of babies and children they've lost, free of charge, to bring a light to them in a time of darkness.

About Finding Feathers

Our Origin & Mission

About Our Founder

Emily Butcher, Founder of Finding FeathersEmily Butcher has been an artist for as long as she can remember. She’s always found beauty in painting human faces, and after personal loss, learned what a comfort it was to have portraits of loved ones nearby once they were gone.

To Emily, paintings are more than the creative expression of a skilled hand – they radiate a unique energy a photo can’t hope to match.

Passion Meets Purpose

In addition to being a skilled painter, Emily has extensive experience as an operating room nurse in a pediatric hospital. This experience provided a unique insight – a number of families had never seen their children free of medical devices. Some families were never able to bring their babies home, or they didn’t live long enough to have a lot of photos taken.

This experience can be incredibly painful for families in the stillborn community, as the few photos they do have are post-mortem. The nature of those photos makes it difficult for parents to feel comfortable sharing them with friends and family. These families are grieving the loss of a real person no one else in the world ever got to meet, and that dynamic can be very isolating while navigating their grief. Emily created Finding Feathers to address this issue and use her artistic ability to bring suffering families a light during a dark time.

How Finding Feathers Helps Those Affected By Loss

The Finding Feathers mission is to provide free 8″ x 10″ hand-painted portraits to bereaved families that honor these babies and children. Emily paints each one herself, and your donation not only allows her to purchase needed supplies, but work directly with grieving parents to make a painful memory a little warmer.


Memorial Gallery

The following portraits not only demonstrate the quality of Emily's paintings, but how she can remove medical devices, tubes, and wires from a family's photos, or combine parts of different ones to produce a heartwarming portrait. While parents of stillborn children are often uncomfortable sharing their photos, Emily's work shows how she can use those images to bring life into their faces, color into their cheeks, and make a painful memory a little warmer for families.

The Finding Feathers Process

Step One: Submit A Request

To begin working with Emily on a free portrait that honors your child (or children), please fill out the requested information in our contact form after indicating your interest in a painting. We understand some of the information may be painful to submit at first, which is why we'll be more than happy to help you through this part of the process.

  • After uploading your photos, please let us know if there are any changes you'd like us to make in the comment area.
  • Once we receive a completed form, we'll be in touch as quickly as possible.
Step Two: We Gather Materials And Paint

Donations are used to gather the materials needed to begin working from the digital photos you submit. We'll be sure to reach out to you during the process if we have any questions. We understand the portrait you request is more than a simple painting and take our responsibility to properly honor your child very seriously.

Step Three: Review And Approval

Once your painting is finished, you'll receive a photo for review. If there are additional changes you'd like to make, we'll work with you until your portrait isn't just something you like, but absolutely love.

Step Four: We Ship Your Painting

Donations also cover any shipping costs to the address you've provided. We take pride in our packaging and shipping process and ensure it's as detailed as the artistic work. You'll receive tracking information, if available.

Step Five: Your Painting Arrives

There's absolutely no pressure to open your package right away. Do it when you feel you're ready. Once you are, unwrap your portrait and love that baby forever.

Contact Finding Feathers

If you’re interested in a painting, want to donate to a wonderful cause, or have a question for us, please fill out the form below. We’ll respond as quickly as possible. All donations are tax deductible, as we are recognized as a 501(c)(3) by the federal government.


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